Bisexual Visibility Month
Why It Matters and What to Read
Every September, the world celebrates Bisexual Visibility Month, a time dedicated to increasing awareness and acceptance of the bisexual community. And let me tell you—this visibility is necessary. For decades, bisexual people have been stereotyped, erased, or told we’re “just confused.” (Spoiler: we’re not. We’re perfectly capable of knowing who we are—and who we love.)
From Bisexual Awareness Week (September 16–23) to Bisexual Visibility Day (September 23), this month invites us to challenge biphobia, celebrate bi+ joy, and remind the world that bisexuality isn’t a phase—it’s a beautiful, whole identity.
As a bisexual romance author, I know firsthand how powerful it is to see yourself reflected in stories. Growing up, I didn’t have queer, spiritual characters who made me feel less alone. That’s why I write them now—so readers like me can feel seen, affirmed, and celebrated.
Why Bisexual Visibility Matters
Let’s be real: bisexual people make up the largest group within the LGBTQ+ community. And yet, we’re often invisible. Some of that comes from outside stereotypes (“pick a side already”), and some comes from within queer spaces where bisexual folks in straight-presenting relationships are sometimes questioned or dismissed.
“The B in the LGBTQ isn’t silent, you know.”
But bisexuality isn’t about halves or indecision—it’s about wholeness, fluidity, and the radical possibility of loving across gender lines. Our identities deserve recognition, not erasure. That’s what this month is about: being seen and celebrated, not doubted or diminished.
Books save lives. They remind us we’re not alone, that our stories matter, and that our happily-ever-afters are possible. If you’re looking to celebrate Bisexual Visibility Month through romance and fiction, here are three powerful reads I recommend:
Holland, My Heart by Jennifer J. Coldwater, narrated by Cindy Harden & Brian Rivera
My debut novel, loosely inspired by the book of Ruth, follows Holland Gallagher, a young widow navigating grief and new love. Holland is bisexual, though she’s often in straight-presenting relationships—which means she wrestles with how others perceive her. Her love story with Kai, a Black-Samoan CEO, is tender, sexy, and full of second chances. If you’ve ever felt unseen in your identity, Holland’s story may resonate deeply.
When Ivy Met Adam by Jennifer J. Coldwater, narrated by CJ Bloom
In this queer retelling of the Genesis story, Ivy has been proudly bisexual since high school. She knows who she is, she knows what she wants, and she’s unapologetically herself. This short novel dives into themes of identity, desire, and belonging—making it a perfect read for #BiMonth.
I Kissed Shara Wheeler by Casey McQuiston, narrated by Natalie Naudus
I loved Red, White & Royal Blue, but I hesitated to read this YA novel that’s part queer mystery, part love story. It follows Chloe Green, a sharp, ambitious bisexual teen determined to unravel the mystery of Shara Wheeler, the prom queen who kissed her and then disappeared. I can’t believe I nearly slept on it! It’s witty, heartfelt, and unapologetically queer—a perfect celebration of bisexual visibility in young adult fiction.
Celebrating Bi+ Joy
Visibility isn’t just about pushing back against stereotypes—it’s also about celebrating ourselves. Whether you’re bi, pan, queer, fluid, or anywhere on the spectrum, your identity is valid and worth celebrating every single day.
Here are a few ways you can honor Bisexual Visibility Month:
Read and review books by bisexual stories (like the ones above!).
Share your story, online or in your community—because visibility ripples out.
Support bisexual creators, activists, and artists who are making space for us all.
This September, I invite you to celebrate with me. Read a book that makes you feel seen. Share your bisexual joy on social media. Tell the world—unapologetically—that bisexuality is real, beautiful, and here to stay.
Because the truth is this: you don’t have to fit neatly into a box to be worthy of love. You don’t have to justify your identity to be valid. You are already whole, already visible, already enough.
Who’s your favorite bisexual character in fiction? Drop them in the comments below—I’d love to add them to my TBR pile!
